I know, you're probably ready to click off of here and say, "he doesn't have a clue what he is saying in this blog," but hopefully you will hear me out. I think it is an important part of life that many miss out on, especially those in healing.
No, I'm not talking about hanging around with doom and gloom people all day life. I'm not talking about immersing yourself in the negativity. I'm talking more about moderation and a shift in awareness and consciousness on negative people and thoughts. I know that if you hang around this stuff, it can really bring you down.
Unfortunately, it isn't so much about the other person being negative as it is what the negative part brings up in each one of us. Think of it as your teacher because it is showing you something that you are mirroring out and reflecting to the world. Yes, I'm sure that is not easy to read, but it is true. Its part of our human experience. It is part of living in a human body.
If you only focus on the positive, you're exhausting so much energy to keep the negative away from you. By doing this, you are giving power to the negative and actually attracting the negative, rather than seeing what it is in the negative that is there to teach you.
When you embrace the negative, you take the power back. You take control and harness the energy because now, you have the ability to conquer it or learn from it. Maybe it is a stepping stone to something more in your life.
Focusing only on the positive means that you're giving up half of your existence and your continued growth. It means you're not seeing the whole picture. It means that you're locked in a pattern of consciousness and awareness that will limit you, rather than free you.
Most of the time, humans do not want to be around the negative because it is like asking a person who is carrying a lot of luggage to carry also carry a 50 lb weight. Instead of being upset with the extra 50 pound weight, we need to learn how to let go of the luggage we carry. If we do this, we will be further ahead.
Being human in a human body is a learning curve. It is a process. It does include embracing the negative along with the positive to find balance in our life. Do it in moderation and you will be surprised at just how much power you reclaim. Use the negative as a teacher and soon you will move to the head of the class.
Here is some interesting information from 2009 on negative or positive thinking.
Question of the Day
Do you try to embrace positive thinking in your life or do you struggle with negativity? What are your thoughts on the subject.
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