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| Written By Don Shetterly |
If you're not in a specific thought bubble on whatever subject it is on, then somehow you're a bad person. You're wrong and stupid and all the other adjectives that one could list here. That's how it is portrayed online each and every day.
It isn't just about one subject that gets screamed about every day. I've seen it lately from things that you wouldn't expect it to things that do not seem to be controversial. As I've found, don't you dare disagree because you are the one that will be outcast.
Far too much of this comes from those who don't want to discuss issues but think everything they say is right (and all others are wrong). Much of this comes from those who profess love and acceptance of everyone, but give them an online comment and they will get down in the mud pit with everyone else.
See, I think these statements about love, acceptance, and rising above everyone is just codeword for you don't agree with me and I don't want to talk to you. I may be wrong, but I see more and more evidence of this.
If we just stand opposed on every subject under the sun, then how does that make us a civilization? How are we a part of the human experience if we only want to hear the things that we agree within a day?
Sure, everyone says they want this, but far too few actually put it into action. Remember when you get down in the mud pit of life and wrestle with everyone, no one can tell you apart. Everyone in the mud pit looks like the other.
We've got enough issues in this world and to create more just for the sake of screaming along with the crowd, that's not being human. In fact, that is ego driven in my view. It is born out of fear that overtakes a person. Human is a long ways off.
I wish this world would jam the gear in reverse, but I'm afraid we're going to go through some painful experiences before things reverse. No one cares about one another these days (unless it is someone in your own tribe). No one knows how to show respect for each other. Yes, they can spout off memes, thoughts, and bible verses showing how loving and compassionate they are.
Maybe we just need to step back and see how we respond to situations. Have you really looked at what you say and do? Is it truly done out of respect, or is it hateful and spiteful?
The other day, I had an exchange with someone and I'll let you read what happened when instead of being sarcastic or spiteful, a simple reply with respect changed the course of a day. It can be that simple, but first, we have to get it right within ourselves. The following tweet was just part of the conversation that helped change the course of the day with another individual.
If you want to practice #Kindness - think about the responses you make to social media postings, videos, and news. If you can't practice kindness in those moments, do you truly understand what it means to be kind?— Don Shetterly (@mindbodythought) November 14, 2018
The person responded
LOL thank u Don, for I have certainly roasted couple severals of people to a charred crisp. While I think they deserve it, they also deserve love/compassion. So today is that day I'm sending it out to them & ALL, including you. I don't know u, but I love u for the person u are.
To which I said,
One day is better than nothing.
Sometimes just a different response can mean so much to the whole world. May we all try to give a different response - one that is respectful, compassionate, and kind.
