I see posts on social media where people claim that the discipline they went through as a child didn't harm them, so why should they do any different with their children. They feel that spankings were a necessary part of their learning experience as children, and it should be passed on.
Unfortunately, even though I don't have kids (and I am being upfront about that), I think spanking hurts a kid more than it helps. I think it is hurts the children long term and it sets them up for many failures in life as well as the potential to do more harm to others.
You can disagree with me all you want, but I've seen firsthand the effects of children being hit, both in myself and on others. You may claim your version of spanking is not like what I went through, but in all reality, I don't think it matters.
Unfortunately, even though I don't have kids (and I am being upfront about that), I think spanking hurts a kid more than it helps. I think it is hurts the children long term and it sets them up for many failures in life as well as the potential to do more harm to others.
You can disagree with me all you want, but I've seen firsthand the effects of children being hit, both in myself and on others. You may claim your version of spanking is not like what I went through, but in all reality, I don't think it matters.

