I get so tired of hearing people use different variations of the statement, "just move on" or "just get over it". Some may realize they are doing this, but many may not. To tell someone that is struggling in life through a traumatic experience to just move on is about one of the most hurtful things you can do to them.
When I came out of the hospital from having a Conversion Disorder and being totally paralyzed, I was met with a lot of encouragement. Unfortunately there were those that would say, "just pray about it" or "you just need to forgive and move on" or "just let it go". I could make a million statements here of things that people said and none of them were the least bit helpful.
I remember telling one person that told me to just pray about my situation, that if you had broken your arm, would you just pray about it and hope it would heal? More than likely you would go to a doctor and have them set it in a cast to get it to heal. Praying can be good and has been shown through research to help in healing, but we all need to get real! Words can hurt, even if you think you are saying something good.
