tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-567475060382733569.post144018268200876962..comments2023-10-16T07:17:34.858-04:00Comments on Mind - Body Thoughts: The Murky Waters Of ForgivenessDon Shetterly - Relaxing Piano Musichttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10127640545301835657noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-567475060382733569.post-13052970764904840682017-09-30T00:09:47.684-04:002017-09-30T00:09:47.684-04:00Yes. You canot hope to forgive until you yourself ...Yes. You canot hope to forgive until you yourself first heal. As you heal and become more whole, you're more able to let go of the anger and resentment towards the other person not for thwork sake, but for YOUR sake and well being. Ike Lovehttp://www.theviablealternative.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-567475060382733569.post-63888015708628228252017-05-07T13:47:08.949-04:002017-05-07T13:47:08.949-04:00Great post as usual. Thank you for writing about t...Great post as usual. Thank you for writing about this. I agree and it was a very long and difficult process for me to find forgiveness...I was bitter and angry for many years, and I felt the same way you did. It took some heavy convincing for me to feel ok with it, and know I did not ever have to SEE the person again, so that I could. When I did let go enough to forgive it was for me and my healing, not about or for the other person at all. And it did take away the resentment that was eating away at me. I was no longer giving them a rent-free space in my head! It is a very personal process and not one that can be forced or that just happens, an one should not be made to feel guilty if they are not at that point yet.<br />Thank you again!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13178054862279599884noreply@blogger.com